These 10 major signs your partner is cheating should never go unnoticed. No one likes a cheater but sometimes we’re dating one or married to one. You can’t be with your partner 24/7 but when they start to stray away longer then often you can’t help but think the worse. And girl, trust the gut if you think it, believe it. And you aren’t crazy for wondering if he’s giving you a reason to question.
Every time you bring to a man’s attention your suspicion of infidelity, the first thing he wants to do is flip the story and turn it back on you. Call you crazy, insecure, and nosey.
It’s Your Right to Know
You have every right to know if your partner is cheating on you. He is putting you at risk of STD’s, some that are curable while others are life threatening. Pregnancy is a possibility when your partner is committing infidelity and not wearing protection.
You aren’t Crazy
Asking a question because you want the truth doesn’t make you a crazy b***h. Yea the truth hurts but if you want to know YOU WANT TO KNOW. You think you’re in a relationship when he’s with you, but he’s out living his best life with other women embarrassing you when he’s not with you. That makes him the crazy one not you. He’s the one going out of his way to live two different lives.
He Needs to be Honest
When your boyfriend or husband wonders off, he’s seeking something he feels you lack. Sorry to be brutal but it’s the truth. Your partner needs to be open about his feelings in the relationship instead of stringing you along. Sit him down to discuss if the relationship can be worked on and find out what’s got him straying off.
He doesn’t answer the phone
Every time you call that man after work your call goes straight to voicemail or he lets the phone ring and ring. When it’s after work there’s no reason why he can’t answer if it’s well after his shift. No text no, voice message, no nothin? Yeaaa somethings up.
Doesn’t come home after work
Most people who don’t work from home have a job outside of the home and for many people that’s fulltime. Five days out of the seven days he never comes home after work, he’s laid up somewhere and it’s not with you. No man is hanging out with his boys staying the night every night. Ask him where he’s really sleeping or if he’s sleeping with one of his boys!
No more calls and texts on break
He no longer thinks to call when he’s on his 10’s and 30’s. He isn’t oozing over you through text messages in between his shift. He’s too occupied to like the sexy pics you send via text message, and he responds to texts hours later.
He doesn’t check his boys
His friends are flirty, and your man doesn’t say a thing. You constantly tell him how his friends make multiple advances toward you and all he says is to ignore them. A man who loves or cares for his woman won’t tolerate his friends making a move on his lady.
You aren’t sleeping in the same room
You’re in the bedroom, he’s on the couch. When he gets home from “work”, he heads straight for the shower then to the couch for the rest of the night. Doing this nightly are clues he’s up texting another chick while your sound sleep in the next room.
No time spent
He used to love going out eat and traveling to national parks with you but now he doesn’t. He doesn’t, have time, he’s always, working and “out with friends”.
Notifications are off
He turns his notifications off, so you don’t have to hear the multiple social media notifications, texts and calls dinging every second.
Not interested in hearing about your day
This is because he’s too occupied listening to someone else’s. Every time you tell him about your day, he be littles you and tells you all you do is complain. This is his way of getting out of not having to listen to what you have to say.
No future together
You two rarely talk about a future together. You never discuss marriage, and he shrieks at the thought of having children together. He’s ok paying rent and has no intentions on purchasing a house together.
He won’t look into your eyes
It kills him to look you in the eyes when you question him. He looks away and never answers the questions in full.
Should I leave him for cheating?
Not necessarily, a lot goes into consideration. How many times has he cheated? Do you know the woman or man? How long have you two been together? Make a list to answering the questions and weigh out the pros and cons of your relationship. After all you two are the ones that are in the relationship and know your history better than anyone.
Do I forgive him for cheating?
You must then ask your yourself. Does he Deserve you? You are a phenomenal woman. You are amazing in every way. What he won’t do another man will. There are over 7 billion people on earth. You don’t have to waste a decade or two waiting for him to change.
How can we heal from cheating?
Many couples have had success with seeking couples’ therapy. There are many benefits that are geared to create successful, healthy relationships and marriages. Therapy should never be embarrassing, and you don’t have to announce to everyone on Facebook that you’re trying it either. Therapy is done one day at a time at your pace. If the relationship or marriage is worth saving, give it a shot.
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